Having been in a relationship for a long time or just entering into them, it already seems to us that we know how our life will go hand in hand with the chosen person. It is worth knowing a few inconspicuous but important things about love in order to avoid potential troubles.
10. Each partner seeks in a relationship of attention to himself
Lack of proper attention to the partner is the most common reason for breaking the relationship. Introduce yourself and your lover. You always want to get attention from a partner. He expects exactly the same from his beloved. That's just the representatives of the male and female operate with the concept of "attention" in different ways. The guy needs the one who will listen to his speeches without question. Beloved must agree with everything he says. Girls are looking for that partner who can convince them to listen to his words without a shadow of doubt from the first days of meeting. If a guy could not win the attention of a girl with his authority or she constantly strives to enter into a dispute with him, disagreements and disharmony in a pair are inevitable.
9. There is a special emotional and sensual connection between a man and a woman
When the relationship is still in its infancy, a connection appears between the lovers, which is constantly growing stronger. A guy and a girl exchange energy every day, and the result is growing feelings. It is precisely because of this connection that has arisen that we sometimes, being in a relationship, feel alone alone, not very well, and wait for a loved one to write a message, call or come by himself. After the partner pays attention, it immediately becomes easier for us. This is a sensual connection or in a different way a relationship channel, thanks to which we feel attachment to a loved one.
8. A man must first “divorce” his mother before marrying his beloved woman
Mom is the main female in the life of a little boy. As soon as he is born, mother turns for him into the whole world. And this happens right up to the teenage age of the child. Then the connection begins to weaken. But it often happens that this very connection between a man and his mother does not weaken with age, but remains at the same “childish” level. It happens that mothers themselves are not ready to “entrust” their son into the hands of another woman, and this fact can greatly harm any love relationship between people. Mom must “let go” of her son to another woman. If this does not happen, the man himself must realize that it is not appropriate for two ladies at the same time in his heart. This means that you should reconsider your relationship with your mother and weaken the emotional attachment between them so that there is no big trouble in tandem with your lover.
7. A woman will always unconsciously strive to suppress the courage of a partner so that he does not go to another
A courageous guy is one who is able to always be brave and strong, penetrate the unknown and not be afraid of change, be a hunter and conqueror. Masculinity more than other qualities attracts girls to guys. However, this same masculinity makes any girl jealous of her boyfriend for other ladies. After the couple enters into a serious relationship, any girl seeks to keep her lover near her. That is why girls ask their men more often to stay at home with them and engage in joint affairs, and not to meet, for example, with friends for the sake of male entertainment.
6. A man achieves his goals only through the love and support of his woman
As we already know, the main ladies in life and the heart of a guy are usually two - this is first his mother in childhood, and then in the future a lover. Both of these ladies throughout his life become the main ideological inspiration for him. A successful man achieves some goal all his life. For this achievement, he needs resources, support. At the very beginning of life, namely in studies and sports, for example, a mother supports a boy. In the future, his beloved girl should inspire him to great achievements. It is she who instills in him strength and confidence in herself and her own abilities.
5. Love is the desire of a man and a woman to develop each other
Often in a relationship one is more dominant and seeks to “subjugate” a partner. Almost always, such a relationship does not lead to anything good, because the more “weaker” partner eventually begins to feel inferior and look for something else to break out of the cell strangling his relationship. “Why are you doing music? Come better with me to the cinema! ” - the dominant tells him. Subconscious jealousy encourages a stronger personality in a pair to limit their other half. But nevertheless, the best and win-win option, chosen by sincerely loving people - is the support of their second half in all endeavors.
4. Every man’s action, even negative, is his service to the woman
Any guy is a direct reflection and evidence of a feminine attitude towards him. That is, each action of a guy in a pair is provoked by one or another act of his lover. Thus, people in their love unconsciously serve each other. Therefore, even if quarrels and scandals prevail in the family, a man drinks or raises his woman’s hand, this is his so-called service to the woman, his reward for her actions. Therefore, a woman should remember: every action of a man, even negative, is her merit.
3. A man should always “win” in the eyes of a woman, a woman should always “lose” him
A guy should always be confident that he is almost in every way superior to his lady. If a woman flaunts her superiority in a pair, as a result, such behavior reduces self-esteem for a man. In order for a guy to always feel comfortable, he must make sure that he surpasses his beloved in most cases. At the same time, a woman should also feel weak in comparison with her lover, it is important for her to feel that her choice is a strong and superior guy who can be a defender.
2. A man dreams of making his beloved Queen, a woman needs a ready-made King
The girl, as we found out, does not want to meet with a weak-minded guy and plan to improve him in the future and “elevate” her own personality. No, she needs an already “ready” strong and courageous person nearby, who from the first day will demonstrate her power qualities and superiority. The fewer shortcomings in a man, the more perfect he is, the more attractive he is for a female. A man, on the contrary, often seeks a modest and weak woman, dreaming of giving her various goods and making her better.
1. The intonations of a man when he addresses a woman greatly affect her emotions and mood
Despite the fact that the ideal man has an imperious character, it is very important for him to talk with his lover as softly as possible. Power and masculinity are manifested in actions, and it is they who are more important for women than any words. But, as everyone knows, women also love with their ears, they like it when men talk to them kindly, protecting them from problems and reassuring them. Therefore, if the male tone of voice is constantly rude, it greatly worsens the emotional state of his lover.