The Internet is “full of” rules that guarantee success and become happy - there are so many articles on this subject that you start to treat them already lightly.
Despite this, people still remember what they read and it remains in the subconscious mind ... Why not take advantage of it then?
The fact is that our subconscious mind remembers everything, even if we do not want it. It is better to read and remember what will help in life, and not some negative or useless information.
You can read these rules on the road, to music, or simply “go over your eyes” - in any case, you will remember the information and it will help you.
10. Make a call
Each of you has numbers on your phone that you look with bated breath. This may be the contact of a person with whom you have been in love for a long time or the number of any organization that you would like to call to try to get a prestigious job.
All you need is to be determined and make the call. A bold act can not only change your life, but it will also increase your self-esteem, even if you are refused. You will know that you tried, so you won’t regret your insecurity later on.
9. Get up earlier
It is generally accepted that closer to night to do things more productively - the mind relaxes and the unconscious is released. The second has great potential for your development, because those aspects of consciousness that were previously suppressed become available to you.
A person full of ideas awakens in you closer to the night - this, of course, can be used. Always write down ideas that come to your mind, even if they seem absurd.
But why is it good to get up in the morning? Getting up early is one way to get subtle energy, in addition, you have a lot of time that you can use productively than if you would get up later.
8. Give more
The law of the universe says: “Give more than you receive.” Many people neglect this rule and live by the principle: “I want to receive”, and they always have only a few, people want more and more.
Why do I need to give more? Let's think it over. A truly happy person is not fixated on things, acquisition, he can easily give back what he has. Lack of attachment is the path to happiness, as is selfless giving.
People take care of themselves all the time and in a search engine you can find a million requests: “How to get?” No one is looking for: "How to give?" Although the second will lead you to happiness.
You know something - share information, meet a friend and you have candy in your pocket - share. Just do it disinterestedly.
7. Take care of others
The way we relate to others shows how we relate to ourselves. Caring for others is manifested in small things - you saw that your wife fell asleep on the couch without a pillow - put it under her head, you see that a hungry child with burning eyes looks at sweets in a store - buy them for him.
Nowadays, when people are accustomed to just take and consume, caring for others is very noble, only you need to do it wisely.
If you take care of someone excessively, then this person can turn into a vampire, eagerly devouring your care, attention and love. Caring and indulging are two different things.
6. Do not stop fighting
Even if you are wounded, crippled by life - do not stop fighting, and above all with yourself. Fighting is worthy.
As soon as you relax and stop fighting, the flow will carry you away ... It is not known where you may be. But when you fight, it means that you yourself control your direction.
Now people believe that there is no need to fight, because we do not have a primitive society, but without a fight you cannot get what you want. The absence of struggle is the destiny of the lazy, if a person is ready to accept “fate”, and not build his life himself, then he does not need a struggle.
5. Take a chance
Opportunities are there every day, just not everyone sees them. People do not like to take risks, because they are afraid to lose what they have - this applies not only to material things, but also to the way of life, relations with any people.
Many things stop a person from acting, in addition, a person is reluctant to change his habits, because it is energy-consuming. But there are people whose lives change every day ... This is also a habit, and for them a measured and homogeneous life is a risk.
In general, risk is more likely not external changes, but mental properties. Learn to take risks, then many opportunities will open before you.
4. Look foolish
People are not afraid to be stupid, but they are afraid that someone will think badly of them, and there are various reasons for this, because they will be “poked with a finger”, insulted, or rejected.
But everyone has stupidity and mind - we cannot be 100% smart or stupid. Everyone has different abilities, and if one understands how to build a house - this does not mean that someone who does not know how to do this is stupid.
You may be considered a fool, but never stop asking questions - this is useful if only to find out different points of view. It contributes to your development, thinking.
People, like books - many can learn many interesting new ideas and innovative solutions.
3. Hone parts
If you do something rewarding, then expect the same result of your activities. It doesn’t matter what you do - draw, write a letter to a far-reaching friend or communicate with a pleasant person - be “included” in what you are doing, a lot of details are made up.
If you ignore something, then skip the basics. When you are “on”, do not miss anything, you will not have to go back and repeat. Be attentive to details and hone them to a brilliant result.
2. Invest in yourself
First, parents invest in the child - they give him upbringing, kindness, love and affection, teach and educate. When a child grows up, it becomes "on its own", parents no longer invest in it.
It is important to understand that, as an adult, only you can “invest” in yourself, and this must be done. It is foolish to think that after graduation from an institute, one no longer needs to study - people study until their death.
You, even in spite of your brilliant education, may not know much - never stop learning, learn the world and gain new skills.
1. Responsible
When things go wrong, admitting to yourself that this is your fault is not the most pleasant, but it is only yours. Of course, many unforeseen situations happen in life, and it may be that someone else is really to blame for our troubles.
For example, someone is envious of your success and inserts “sticks in the wheels”, then the problems that you have arise because of this envious person. But look around - where you are, what surrounds you, how people treat you - this is only up to you.
Be responsible for your life and remember that what happens in it depends on you.