The most long-awaited holiday for every woman is a wedding. I want everything to go flawlessly.
Unfortunately, most newlyweds in pursuit of an ideal wedding forget who this event is for.
Instead of enjoying the celebration and chatting with guests, they check for the hundredth time whether they are ready for competitions and specify when they will serve hot.
Of course, you should not let everything go by its own accord, but let the wedding planner or close relative take care of the small details. Allow yourself to relax and enjoy the celebration.
After all, for sure you expect to celebrate a golden wedding with this man, respectively, in the role of the bride you will not have to visit more.
Nevertheless, there are such errors from which no one is safe. If you do not want to spoil the holiday, read our article.
Below are 10 things you should not do at a wedding.
10. Too big interval between the ceremony and the banquet
After the wedding ceremony, the bride and groom, as a rule, go to a photo shoot. At this time, guests are left to their own devices.
If you are planning a long photo shoot, then take care of your guests. You can invite a facilitator who will entertain them while you are taking pictures.
You can arrange a light buffet. No, this is not only champagne, but also snacks. Otherwise, half of your guests will not get to the restaurant, having gone through alcohol.
A good choice is on-site registration. You can register your marriage any day, and arrange a performance for guests. It is very cute and touching. If you choose a good place, you will not need to go to another part of the city to get beautiful photos.
9. Skipping breakfast
Of course, on such an exciting day, the bride and groom have no time for breakfast at all. It’s better not to ignore this meal. The festive day is scheduled in minutes, then you will not even have time to have a bite to eat.
Stop getting nervous, worry and have breakfast. To smile, take pictures, dance, accept congratulations, you need strength, and a banquet, as a rule, begins only in the evening.
In addition, the lack of breakfast can play a trick on you if you decide to drink some champagne. On an empty stomach, alcohol is absorbed faster, you can get very drunk.
8. One pair of shoes
Brides think of beauty, but do not attach importance to convenience. Stiletto heels certainly look stunning, but dancing in them all night will be very difficult.
If you are planning a long walk-photo shoot, then be sure to take a second pair of shoes, preferably not new.
By the way, this applies not only to the bride, but also to the groom. If you press new shoes, your beloved will not be up to the holiday.
Be sure to take the patch. New shoes almost always rub their feet, even if at first glance it seems very comfortable.
7. Addicted to alcohol
The bride and groom are very nervous before the wedding, so they often want to drink a glass of champagne to "calm their nerves."
At the banquet, guests also come with glasses and glasses, want to drink for love and a new family. How can I refuse?
Do not get involved in alcohol if you want the wedding to go flawlessly. Of course, no one forbids you to drink some champagne, but do not forget to control yourself.
Otherwise, you just ruin your holiday. Drunk people cannot adequately perceive the situation.
It is known that many cases when the newlyweds got drunk, quarreled with each other or guests.
There will be relatives on both sides of the wedding, but you don’t want to be disgraced in front of them. In addition, the first wedding night awaits you.
6. Pay with performers during the wedding
If you need to pay for the rental of the hall or pay for the services of a host, find a more suitable time for this.
It is not necessary to arrange this in front of the guests. Also, if you have any complaints about the quality of the services provided, try to resolve the issue without unnecessary witnesses.
Even if you are overwhelmed with negative emotions, do not break, do not make a scandal. No need to spoil the mood for yourself and your guests.
5. Do not observe timing
In order not to be late anywhere and keep pace everywhere, carefully plan your holiday. Try not to go out of time.
Remember, if you are late for 15 minutes with a photo shoot, you will be late for a banquet. Of course, the guests will forgive the bride and groom everything, not just being late, but many will regard this as a neglect.
Again, it is worth considering that the time of your performers (photographer, presenter, guest artists) can also be scheduled in minutes.
Tardiness will not add you to a good mood, you will feel irritation, disappointment due to the fact that everything is not going according to plan.
4. To worry about the fact that you do not have time to communicate with each guest personally
If you have a small wedding, then you are unlikely to worry about this.
If you are organizing a huge banquet for 200 people, it’s definitely not possible to communicate with each guest. Do not even think, this is not something to worry about at your own wedding.
Try to find time for loved ones, chat with those who are really dear to you. Believe me, the rest of the guests will not be upset if they can not talk to you.
3. Find out the relationship
No need to sort things out at the wedding. Whatever happens, keep yourself in control.
If there are many guests at your wedding, it is unlikely to be able to avoid incidents. If guests start arguing and cursing, there is no need to reconcile them.
Yes, in Russia they still believe that a wedding without a fight is not a wedding. If something like this happens on your holiday, don't worry or be nervous. Do not get into disputes yourself either.
If the groom behaved incorrectly, do not provoke a scandal. Calmly tell him that you do not like his behavior and do not focus on the little things. Moreover, do not discuss his actions with friends.
2. Forget about social networks
Many people now have such a strong dependence on social networks that they are even ready to "sit on the phone" at their wedding.
Of course, I want to inform the whole world about my happiness, boast of a beautiful dress, hairstyle and a happy groom, but leave social networks for later. You will always have time to post photos and accept congratulations from virtual friends.
Believe me, it looks very strange when, on her happiest day, the girl does not pay attention to her husband and guests, does not enjoy the holiday, but seeks to upload more photos.
Your friends in the social network will have a feeling that you have nothing to do at your own wedding.
1. Forget about her husband
Newlyweds want not to offend anyone and not to deprive attention, but they often forget about each other.
This is your holiday, spend it together. It is clear that each guest wants to invite the bride to the dance or take a joint photo with the groom, talk to them separately, ask about feelings and emotions.
Think about the fact that you can never repeat this day, so do not leave your newly-made husband alone.
You will discuss the latest news with your friends more than once or chat with distant relatives, and you will no longer have another wedding.