The older children become, the more they move away from their parents. May the pope forgive us, we will devote this article to mothers.
10. You made her cry ... many times
You have not been born yet, but she already cried because of you. Many women cry when they see a positive pregnancy test. From happiness and surprise. Some people go to their goal for a long time; they cannot become pregnant for many years. No matter how much your mother was waiting for you, she cried when she barely saw two strips on the test. First tears. But those long 9 months that she wore you, can not be called serene. During pregnancy, she often could not hold back her tears. Childbirth. She cried from pain, and then from happiness that she saw you. Since you were born, mom began to cry much more often. You may not notice this, but she feels your every pain, as her own.
9. She wanted to eat this last piece of cake
Remember when my mother said she didn’t want to eat the last piece of the holiday cake? So, she lied. Moms also love delicious food, beautiful clothes, entertainment and pleasure. But they are ready to give everything to the last, if only the child was full, dressed, shod. That's why mom gave that piece of cake to you. She was delighted to watch you enjoy eating it. Even if you have long gone out of childhood, your mother is also trying to help you with money, groceries, everything she can. In general, he gives you the very “last piece of cake”.
8. It hurts
Mom never told you that you hurt her a lot. When you came to this world, your mother suffered from severe pain. She was breast-feeding you, and you were biting, she was not very pleased. You’ve grown a little, it’s even harder for your mother. You pulled her hair, sat on her head, bit, scratched, pinched. Mom bravely endured your childhood pranks. But that is not all. She understood that she was no longer strong, but still carried you in her arms. She sat in an uncomfortable position, since you could only fall asleep “on the arms”. She pulled the stroller to the fifth floor without an elevator and never complained.
7. She was always afraid
Fear for you has haunted her since conception. The doctor frowned, she felt excitement. Worried whether everything was in order. 9 months, she was thinking about you. At the time of birth, she was worried about you. You were born, mom lost her peace. Fear settled in her soul. She thought that you would fall ill, fall, misfortune would happen. Fear caused new hobbies, friends. Mom will be afraid for you all the time, no matter how old you are. Do not forget about it, call her more often, talk about your affairs. Mom used to do everything to protect you from troubles. Let her help you now. If you do not need her help, do not offend your mother. Let her feel important and necessary.
6. She knew she wasn’t perfect
Most mothers are too categorical in relation to themselves. They strive for the ideal, they want their children to have all the best. If it doesn’t work out, they worry, scold themselves. Mom still cannot forgive the mistakes she made. Therefore, at least you, never blame your mother for the fact that she raised you incorrectly, missed something. She had long ago punished herself for this. By the way, modern mummies are even more difficult in this regard. There is much talk about early development. In social networks, happy mothers post photos of happy kids, no problems, no troubles. Newly mummies see it all and are horrified by their own failure. Perhaps your mother, having seen all this, will think that she devoted too much time to work and household chores. Therefore, you did not become the President of Russia or, at worst, the director of Gazprom. Mom would like to return to the past and correct her mistakes.
5. She watched you sleep
Mom went crazy with fatigue when you went to bed at 3 a.m. She took you in her arms, wore, shook, sang songs, turned on soothing music. As soon as you fall asleep, her dream went away. Mother admired you, a little sleeping angel. When you grew up, mother could not take her eyes off you. Enjoyed every minute. After all, then you went to kindergarten, and she went to work. You spent so little time together. Therefore, when you fell asleep, she sat next to her, listened to your breath and asked God that you should be fine.
4. She cared for you much more than nine months
Your mother wore you for more than 9 months. A lot longer. She wore another three years at least. Already on hand. She took you often, you really wanted it. She did not pay attention to fatigue. May your back and arms hurt, mother will not refuse you. She knew that you need her, you feel safe only next to her, so she did not ignore your screams and requests, even when there was no more strength left. What to hide, she is now ready to take care of you, even though you are already a very big boy / girl.
3. Every time you cried, her heart was broken
If you cried, your mother’s heart broke. She tried to calm you down. If mother could not help you, she went crazy with hopelessness. You were very young, you had colic, she cried many times with you. After all, she could not do anything. If you cried in pain, she was ready to give everything in order to alleviate your condition. Teething pain, illness, mom felt how hard it was for you. Now you probably are not crying anymore, but she is experiencing all your problems more sharply than her own.
2. She put you first
When you were born, mother forgot about her needs. While you were very young, she often even forgot to dine. She went without rest for a long time, did not sleep, did not eat, could not even find 10 minutes to take a shower. She gave all her time to you. If your dad was not an attentive and understanding husband, their relationship may have deteriorated during this period. But your mother still put you in the first place. You are the most important person in the world for her.
1. And she would do it again
Your mother experienced a lot. Toxicosis, terrible condition, then a huge belly, which did not allow you to wear shoes on your own. Then there is excruciating pain, childbirth, then sleepless nights, illnesses, problems with adaptation in the kindergarten, deuces, trouble at school. You grew up, mother did not feel better, she is now worried about you. But if she had the opportunity to turn back the clock and change her life, you know what she would do? She would have decided to do it again. Because children are a great happiness. Your mother has done so much for you, thank her. Tell her more often that you love her. It is so simple, but few people say these words to their mother. Say, let her rejoice, feel needed.