Often there are situations when a man meets a woman for pleasure. He has no serious intentions, and he is sure that the woman thinks the same.
That's just the majority of girls on this score have the exact opposite opinion. They already make a list of guests for the wedding, come up with names for common children.
Usually women do not accept sex without love; for men, lack of feelings is not an obstacle. If your partner does not offer you anything serious, although you have been together for quite some time, maybe he is only interested in sex.
Well, if you understand this and do not build castles in the air. Even better if you want the same from him.
If you feel that you are attached to this person, there is nothing to congratulate you on. Loving the person who uses you is hard, so it’s better to stop talking. To prevent this from happening, you should take a closer look at your partner.
Below are 10 signs that a man only needs sex from you
10. He only remembers you in the evenings and on weekdays.
If your man is able to allocate for you only the late evening of a weekday - this is not a very good sign. He is not shy about calling you after 21:00. And he immediately takes the bull by the horns: invites him to a hotel, asks for a visit (the second option is preferable for him).
Have you ever wondered what he does on the weekend? Most likely, he meets a woman who he really likes. And you are not on his weekend to-do list. Perhaps your gentleman has a family, and your relationship does not oblige him to anything.
9. You have never had a “real” date
He never invited you to a restaurant or cafe, you did not go to the cinema, the theater, he does not agree to walk in the park. All your meetings end in sex. He again begs for a visit, rents a hotel room or lends an apartment with a friend.
He will never say that you are indifferent to him. But only if you become the initiator of a joint pastime, he will refuse. His grandmother will get sick, there will be urgent matters at work and many other problems.
Do not console yourself with vain hopes. If a man does not want to see you, then he does not feel anything for you. Short meetings for joint pleasure do not count.
8. He does not introduce you to anyone
When a man is in love, he wants the whole world to show his treasure. If your chosen one does not attend such a desire, then he does not need you. He will do everything so that you know as little as possible about him. If it disappears, you cannot find it through friends or relatives.
Your partner refuses to meet your friends, citing cases or health problems. You do not communicate with anyone. If you meet someone on the street, he will try to minimize communication. He will say that you are late, and will not give a single definite answer to all your questions.
7. He is not interested in your life.
You share with him the most secret, and he lets your words pass by your ears. If a man feels sympathy for a woman, he will ask questions, talk. He wonders how the working day went, what the doctor said and how your mother feels.
A partner who needs only sex will not offer help in the most difficult situations. The only thing he can do is comfort with sex. Yes, this method is not so bad, but if you are outraged by such behavior, maybe you should refuse its services?
6. You never forgot anything from him
Most men who meet women for sex try not to bring her to their territory. He will say that he lives with a sick grandmother, a rottweiler and cockroaches. He will describe his home in such a way that for a long time you will not want to visit him.
If a man invites you to visit, it still does not mean anything. Do not hope that tomorrow he will give you an engagement ring.
Perhaps he has no other option: extra money for a hotel room or a good friend who does not appear in his apartment.
Observe how your chosen one behaves. If he checks the apartment every morning for the things you left behind, it’s worth considering. He simply does not want you to have a reason to return, so that you do not have a forgotten hairpin or some piece of clothing.
5. He compliments only appearances
The chosen one can shower you with compliments, but they all relate to appearance. Beautiful legs, chest, arms, hair ... the list goes on and on. From beautiful words, your self-esteem rises and you melt like ice cream on a hot summer day.
Think about it: do you really have other advantages? He does not value your mind, sense of humor, ingenuity. He is not interested in your professional achievements. Everything is clear, you are a doll for him.
No matter how cruel it may sound, he sees only the external beauty, and your inner world does not interest him.
4. He often makes it clear that he has little time
Right from the door, he drags you into the bedroom, he always has little time: he was in a hurry at work, urgent business. Maybe it looks romantic.
You think that, despite his workload and problems, he wanted to see you, to meet. Female fantasy is endless.
Only a woman in love can decide that her new friend is a special agent undercover who does not have free time.
Do not create illusions if you understand that a man sets a time frame, he simply does not want to waste his precious time on you.
3. He does not answer calls when you are nearby
A man does not want you to know at least something about him. During your meetings, he never answers the phone. You may again think that he wants to spend more time with you, but you must admit that this behavior looks rather strange.
Perhaps another woman is calling him. Maybe he’s all serious with her, or maybe she is another lover. You do not hope that you are alone with him?
If a man has nothing to hide, and he likes a woman, he will apologize and answer the phone. And then he will tell her with whom he was talking and about what.
2. You never had breakfast together
You do not know anything about the feelings of your man. It seems to you that he is going crazy with love, and he is driving you out of a warm bed, referring to urgent matters: in the morning mother will arrive, the landlady will come, and a friend will call in.
If meetings take place in your territory, it does not stay overnight. Coming up with ridiculous reasons again, but you believe him.
If you do not sleep together, do not eat breakfast, there can be no doubt. He only needs sex from you. No need to invent anything. Do not justify the man, if he wanted, he would stay with you.
1. He is not on the social network.
When you ask him about social networks, the man says that he is not interested. He does not understand why wasting time on nonsense. If your chosen one is 70, then you can believe him, but if not, then he is deceiving you.
There are few such people who are not registered in social networks. Most likely, he simply does not want unnecessary questions. He knows that you will ask to be friends, and then begin to bombard him with cute postcards.
A man is trying to limit your conversation to the bedroom. Humble yourself and do not count on a serious relationship. If this scenario suits you, act in the same spirit. If not, look for another man who will be interested not only in your body, but also in your soul.